The Blame Game

Are some members of forumhaiti suffering with Borderline Personality Disorder ?

"People suffering with Borderline Personality Disorder tend to blame others for their problems and how they feel. Borderlines as a means of protecting themselves from the unrecognized and/or unconscious pain of the core wound of abandonment project their thoughts and feelings onto others.

This makes everything seem to the borderline as if what is coming from or being done by him or her is actually coming from or being said or done by someone else - the non borderline.

It can be confusing for those with BPD and crazy-making for the family/friend of someone with BPD. It leads to a relational dynamic that is called the blame game - a game that nobody actually has a chance of winning. A game that hurts all involved in the dynamic of borderline relating that manifests in this borderline blame."

Kami,
When those who offer themselves as legitimate leaders of a people, and when these wannabe leaders fail miserably in fulfilling their obligations, it becomes our duty and responsibility to lend a voice to the voiceless. If it is your opinion that we suffer from some kind of mental illness, then so be it. Maybe you already have first-hand knowledge in this matter. By the way, name calling has no place in a debate. " Man, know thyself "